Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. When people cheat they are fully aware of what they are doing so they have no excuse saying that cheating is a mistake.Cheating, by definition, is being unfaithful to somebody and intending to mislead or deceive for personal gain. There are two types of cheating: first is physical cheating is being sexually intimate with someone other than your partner. It’s the most common form of cheating. Men and women perceive being cheated upon very differently. Men view it as an emasculation and a form of physical rejection. Women try to provide explanation for the physical indiscretion if they feel that no emotions were involved. Second, Emotional cheating is a desire for a close emotional bond. This type of cheating may start off as an innocent friendship. “An emotional cheater may consist of sharing thoughts, dreams, and an emotional closeness that would normally be seen as doing that with their spouse/mate.” But either way when you love a person, tell them and when you don't, tell them.