Being a mother isn't an easy job either. But it's one of the most crucial and can be the most rewarding roles ever. I've met a lot of youth of varying ages and when it came to the root of the problems they faced, especially emotionally, they always had something to do with a parent or both not being there or being hard to communicate with. Kids nowadays are often left with nannies or relatives who can care less for the right welfare of the child. Building strong bonds and influence with your kids, especially in their early years is the most critical. If the parent fails to do so during these years then it might spell danger in the years ahead. If you can find a job that won't take you away from your kids for a long time and without you being overworked, then go for it. But it's always best to talk it with hubby first. Work together on it.