Failing Is Part of Success

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  1. Jency William

    Jency William Member

    Start to be aware of any stories Arctic Blast Review you tell yourself to explain the behaviors of others. Do you have a consistent pattern of explaining events so that you are the victim of other people's behavior? Do you create a "story" about what happened without a word to the other person? Do you "go along" with things you don't agree with, withdraw, make up a story and feel injured? Do you overreact by automatically assuming you have been deliberately slighted? Do you spend a lot of time focusing on other people's behavior looking for transgressions real or imagined, while paying little attention to your own behavior and its impact on others?
    Consider moving your attention back into your own body and sphere of influence. Start looking to your own behavior. Become aware of any "stories" you are making up about a situation. Look at the pattern of results of your stories. Do your stories justify your getting angry, feeling rejected, being hurt, retaliating, being mean to others (misdirecting your anger), or ending relationships?
  2. Geofrey93

    Geofrey93 Member

    Failure is probably one of the aspects in life most people are afraid of. But the truth is: everyone has failed and everyone will fail again. We sometimes forget that all successful people have failed, but they did not stop after their failures. So do not be afraid of failure, it is a part of your road to success.
  3. Nicky71

    Nicky71 New Member

    I once listened to a speaker who used the idea of our own 'language' directly determining our success, and this really resonated with me. He gave the example of when you ask someone out, and they say no. Our own language determines what happens next. Do we use the word 'rejected' to explain what just happened (thus affecting our confidence adversely, and putting us off ever asking someone else out again), OR do we stop the 'story-telling' and just state the facts: "I asked her out. She said no. That is the only truth- everything else is just my interpretation". The latter is obviously more helpful to our emotional well-being, and ensures that we do not give up on the idea of asking someone else out in the future. Therefore I believe that failure can definitely lead to success- IF we ourselves let it!
  4. Bcaluag

    Bcaluag Member

    Failure is the best teacher in life. So dont be afraid to make mistake because thats what make us a better person. Even the most richest man on earth experience failure maybe not once but a thousand times but they didn’t give up instead they make their failure as there motivation to succeed in life.
  5. Allanjohn30

    Allanjohn30 Member

    If we want to live a normal life, we need to face failures. Try to imagine a life without failures, do you think we can identify or appreciate success? I would definitely say NO. Experiencing failure is proving that we are living a normal life, it is one of the ways to evaluate our strengths and weaknesses in order to improve our standard of living, and to fully define ourselves personally and socially. Let us consider failures as a motivation and an inspiration to reach our goals in life.

    Failures might be painful, but overcoming them is an overwhelming success.
  6. Etaypink1

    Etaypink1 Active Member

    Failing Your Way To Success:
    Why Failure Is A Crucial Ingredient For Success. Failure - we all come in contact with it. And more often than not, we dread even entertaining the idea of failing. We avoid getting an 'F' like the plague because that would mean we failed at something.
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  7. snesz08

    snesz08 Member

    Having failures in life doesn't mean we need to give up. sometimes it's part of your success to learn and it teach us how to fight and face for it, to see that there is always hope and chances to learn. just always remember, keep fighting everyday to success and achieve our goals in life. failure is part of success.
  8. Twinklebisnar

    Twinklebisnar Member

    Failure is part of success. You can't achieve success without failing because thiw will be the lesson for you so you will learn not to do it again and you will know what to do next time it happen again. You should not feel sad if you fail, you should think that it's just a test and after that you can achieve the succes you want. And also failure makes us stronger so we can face the problem that wi might encounter in the future.
  9. BigEyes

    BigEyes Member

    Failure is part of success cause in failure we learn so much from it and not to do it again .It help us to be successful.
  10. We will not be successful if we don't have failure. failure is something that we need to learn, in every decision there is always cause and effect, so wee need to be careful in life. once we fail, we get a lesson, when we get a lesson, we will learn. once we learned we will succeed.
  11. alzjytdf

    alzjytdf New Member

    All successful people will proved that failing is a part of success because “If you've never failed you've never lived”. This saying is true and tested because even if the most genius and talented person fails before he/she succeed in life. For all we know, failure is probably one of the aspects in life most people are afraid of. But the truth is: everyone has failed and everyone will fail again, so do not be afraid of failure because it is a part of your road to success. For example, for unexpected reason, you will not graduating on time because you failed one subject unintentionally but this is not the end of your journey because God give you problem that will help you to become a better person in your future so instead of giving up, continue your school activities until you graduated. Because grades is just a number and it doesn't matter when you get a job, what you will need is attitude and skills to succeed in your career. So don't lose hope if you fail, instead set in your mind that the If you fail, success is next in line. Cheer up! Don't let negative thoughts get into you mind.
  12. tinatinay

    tinatinay Member

    Failure is made to appreciate our success. It makes us stronger and bolder. failure is a constant reminder that living the life isn't easy, you will face challenges that will test your patience, courage and faith. so just keep on moving, step by step until you push yourself and reach the top.
  13. Dmariere

    Dmariere New Member

    This is totally true because from every failure there is a lesson to be learnt. Those lessons are valuable and are the building blocks of future successes. All who have succeeded have failed at some point in their lives
  14. Georgeliner

    Georgeliner Member

    I agree because when you learn and avoid to do mistakes again.
  15. rvtamayo

    rvtamayo Member

    We fail, we learn, we fail again, we learn, we grow and improve until we reach our objective in our life. Failures are just nature telling us to try a different approach and to keep on trying till we get the result that we need. Having not to try something is even harder than failing.
  16. GigsNext

    GigsNext New Member

    Remember -
    Failure is a stepping stone to success.
    You fail at some attempt. It does not mean you are a failure.
    Everyone fails at some time or other in their lives. It is how one recovers after learning from such things is what counts in life.
    Sometimes, it is better to rename failure as a setback to overcome. The changed name does not connote ideas of weakness and inefficiency as otherwise it might.
    Many times failure helps one to strengthen one's resolve to try harder to achieve by bringing to surface unknown reserves of resources that lie hidden unknown to oneself!
  17. doudou

    doudou New Member

    Yeah. failure is part of success if you have the iron will besides and a strong personality. Failure is as a slap; It wakes you and pushs you to up date your ideas and avoid errors made in the past. FAILURE gives you the strenth to get back on you feet and go forwords .
  18. jom1822

    jom1822 New Member

    failure is just a embarrasing moment that give you the right and strong personality and strenght to push forward and make the right choice
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  19. jessaann23

    jessaann23 New Member

    Yes, failure is part of every person's success. Failures make us learn from our previous mistakes, it enables us to be better at decision making and cautious with our actions in the future.
    Likewise, a failure can be used as motivation to push yourself and get back on your feet. Because in this life, if you hit rock bottom, there's no other way but up.
  20. fcaramihan

    fcaramihan New Member

    Failure is the main ingredients of success,without it you cannot taste the real sense of success,although it's painful to failed in life but it will give you experience and lesson that you can use someday.

    Failure must take it in a positive way,use it to motivate yourself,use it to make you stronger and use it to learn to dream again

    Always remember that failure always make you what you are and what is your capabilities,only take it in the positive ways
  21. michpiong

    michpiong Member

    I do believe that failing is part of success because it will give you a lesson that will lead you to success. In failing something, you can gain a lesson. Once you get a lesson, you will learn from it. You will then apply that on your next try to pass through challenges in life. This learning then will help you to succeed in life's challenges.

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  22. Megafortune

    Megafortune New Member

    To a highly evolved being it is yes. Failing is an opportunity to do something in a better way. Also makes one to know what is not working. Though a number of people sink ( give up) with failure.
  23. Geofrey93

    Geofrey93 Member

    “If you've never failed, you've never lived”. Failure is probably one of the aspects in life most people are afraid of. But the truth is: everyone has failed and everyone will fail again. ... So do not be afraid of failure, it is a part of your road to success.
  24. joanarc321

    joanarc321 Member

    There is no success if there is no failure. There is no failure if there is no success. All of us experience failing in life because failing itself is LIFE. How would know the feeling of winning if you haven't experience losing? The Sweetest success are for the people who failed several times in their life and yet they never give up. They stood up once again and learned from their failures. They used these failures to achieve the desired success.
  25. klynne18

    klynne18 New Member

    You cannot reach success if you've never gone through failure. Failure is one of the stepping stone to reach success. Failure teaches you many lessons that you should know to be able to conquer quest in aiming success. And we all experienced failures in our lives, in different situations either at home, in work or even in different people. But through this failure, we're able to stand up again and know the things that we should and should not do. We learn in our mistakes which makes us a better person and lead motivates us to reach for the success that we're aiming for.
  26. ray87dave

    ray87dave New Member

    In case you're similar to the vast majority, you likely have an awful association with disappointment. You consider it to be a consummation, as evidence that your arrangement didn't succeed or your thoughts weren't adequate. In all actuality, disappointment happens to everybody. The main thing that isolates individuals who prevail from the individuals who don't is a legitimate comprehension of the intensity of disappointment. Achievement necessitates that you gain from slip-ups and stumbles en route as opposed to falling into despondency and surrendering.

    Focus on the data here, particularly in case you're at a spot where disappointment isn't your companion, and you will find that open door lies in each annihilation. Here are 3 reasons why disappointment is the way to progress.

    1. Disappointment is a Function of Trying

    The most ideal approach to gauge your advancement at something is the quantity of misfortunes and "disappointments" you've had. On the off chance that you haven't flopped yet, odds are you aren't making a decent attempt. Disappointment is the metal forger's mallet that tempers the sword of achievement. In the event that you need to get great at something, you need to flop no less than a couple of times.

    On the off chance that you take a gander at all the extraordinary people since forever, you'll see that they shared one primary concern for all intents and purpose. They fizzled, and they flopped regularly. Consider Thomas Edison. How often did he neglect to locate the correct fiber for his light? There are different assessments, however they all range in the ballpark of an entire hell of a great deal. Henry Ford knew about disappointment personally. To such an extent that he is cited for saying the accompanying: "Disappointment is the chance to start once more, more wisely."

    Unmistakably, disappointment speaks to circumstance and development, not shortfall and misfortune.

    2. Achievement Lies in Seeing Failure as a Tool

    Similarly as every one of the greats share something for all intents and purpose, so too do the genuine "disappointments" of life: their powerlessness to utilize disappointment as a device. When you feel that sinking, edgy sensation known as disappointment and you acknowledge it, you decrease yourself. You give your capacity away to an outer occasion. Achievement is tied in with figuring out how to perceive why you bombed, and how you will make up for it.

    I think that its supportive to put forth the accompanying inquiries upon disappointments, of all shapes and sizes.

    What achieved the disappointment?

    What amount of it is in my domain of impact?

    How might I utilize my impact to transform disappointment into progress?

    What steps do I have to experience to attempt once more?

    What would i be able to do each day to guarantee that my next attempt is accomplished all the more insightfully?

    You might need to get out a bit of paper and experience that rundown. Be totally transparent as you make every inquiry. Break down your answers cautiously and execute them – don't hesitate! Keep in mind, disappointment is a chance, not a weight. Be thankful for an opportunity to develop.

    3. Disappointment Builds Character

    In the event that you take a gander at the occasions paving the way to any huge triumph, you'll frequently find disappointment as the greatest helper. Similarly as the Colorado River made the Grand Canyon over a time of a great many years, achievement can likewise come in little pieces, and they're a piece of any triumphant methodology. Then again, trusting that something will happen isn't compelling when you can make a move now.

    So what do you have to reliably test yourself and gain from fizzled endeavors? Character.

    Achievement happens by a wide margin for individuals who are prepared for it. To truly make esteem, throughout each and every day, requires assurance, reason, and a large portion of all, that unpretentious yet immensely vital characteristic known as character. Disappointment is a much better character developer than any certification or short lived objective. While every achievement will impel you just barely, disappointment will fashion your vocation – and your identity – like nothing else will. It's the contrast between a characteristic lake being shaped more than a large number of years and a man-made lake coming into fulfillment in less than a year.


    Achievement takes self control, insight, assurance, and coarseness. In any case, more than everything else, it requires disappointment. Utilize this is a chance to reassess your relationship to the genuine key to progress that such a significant number of individuals dread.
  27. vernixcaseosa

    vernixcaseosa New Member

    Indeed. I failed so many times but the important thing is you stand up and get back on track. If you want something, try and try until you succeed. Every failure there's a lesson to be learned. Every learning will be your armor that no one can take from us until we reach our goal and be successful to whatever path we are taking.
  28. Catutzy

    Catutzy New Member

    I want to tell you a very wise word:
    Do not tell God how great your problems are, but tell your problems how great God is!
  29. unknownXIII

    unknownXIII Member

    Failure is not fatal. No matter how hard it may be know that failure simply means you get another shot to try it all again. Every time you fail always stand up and don't give up don't stop trying
  30. beckertani

    beckertani Member

    We all fail, everyone experienced it, even the successful person you know. So if we relate this to relationship towards other people, I am sure that this is not easy because all of us are different that is why sometimes we don't understand the behavior of others and as a result (if you are trying to please all people in the world) I am sure you will fail. But whatever happens just continue what you are doing, the next try might be a success and if you fail again. Try again until you succeed.

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