I have three kids. all were unplanned. It is very much exciting to wait til your pregnant or not. We definitely didn't plan to have kids as early as possible. But then there's one, after 8 years the 2nd came, after a year and a half my princess came. Then we stopped. I guess having Three kids is not easy. Not to mention the cost. But it is great to have a big family. Now we are not planning to have a baby again, but I'm not using any pills of any sort. Having a baby is a blessing. If its time to have another then so be it.