You can't expect it to be given to you by someone else. Happiness comes first within you. How? Proper mindset, is one. You got to visualize the positives and negatives in you life. Next, is family. "No man is an island" they say, and it's true. You need people who supports you but don't depend on their existence. You control your life, your emotions. Another is to do the things you love. Do something that excites your soul. And sometimes, being content can make you genuinely happy and worry free.